"LOVE, RELATIONSHIPS, AND JIO-ING, FOR DUMMIES.
First of all. . .
Girls expect guys to be a gentleman. Yeah, you know the normal stuffs? Like treating her well, holding doors? i don't know. Depends on what the girl deems as being a gentleman.
Caring definitely! Guys need to express care and concern. And never belittle a girl's problem no matter what!(: Or we may feel we're being "shot down". And caring in other aspects, like in terms of caring towards others, as well as the community. hahah. eh, now I say all this shure all the guys who read this will start adding to their CIP hours eh? ;) Okay, but seriously, guys who do CIP and interact with the unfortunate children, and old folks are pretty cool(: to me.
There was once a guy at school was allowing this small 5 year old boy sit on his shoulders,and he was kinda holding another small boy's hand at the same time. :D I admit, the sight did melt my heart. It was so sweet! :D
Definitely guys with charisma. And a good smile to brighten your day? Who won't like that?hmm. And the smile must be genuine! hahah, cos genuine smiles can genuinely be felt(:
Probably someone who is willing to lend a shoulder to cry on, and a listening ear. Patience is the key! We can feel it(:
Girls are easily swayed by simple things that touch their hearts! (:
simple things will do.
A simple walk-on-the-beach or picnic will do the trick! no need for movies, or shopping all the time(:
Most girls will prefer guys who are all down-to-earth. ( but don't ask why =/ hmm)
And guys who just know what to say at the right time . hahah. And THAT comes with alot of practice.
Girls love boys who are HONEST. That is the most important of all. And once you break her trust, im sorry...
And remember, girls keep into heart WHATEVER you guys say! So never ever make empty promises, but keep to those promises. And don't say things rashly and hurt their feelings. Remember to think twice!(: And don't say what you don't mean(:
Due to our little stereotyped world, it is natural that the GUYS who should initiate at first! Because, woudn't it be weird if a girl asks a guy to be her boyfriend ? So do pluck up the courage and all, and initiate.
plus, we like guys to be matured, probably.And but some girls do go for childishness too. some think they can click with childish boys, better! So its not a crime to be childish(:
okay so here it is, a summarized version. more contents to be added soon. !
Well, girls will probably like guys who care for them but not SO MUCH until there is no space to breathe, (Things like, messaging her every few minutes, and asing her why she didn't reply your previous message) definitely. You'll appear to be prying into her space. (haha, and i personally, do not like that alot actually =/ )
Plus, try not to question her! (: For the things she does, or people she hangs out with.
Well, maybe try not to answer your cellphone/ messaging etc. when you're out with her.
Hmmm, I was thinking of what to say for qualities, well, different girls have different opinions. Some go for the Brains, some, because of his Talents, maybe for his charisma, and sadly, some for the Looks.
Well, looks actually doesnt matter at all... and after everyone matures, we will all realize that. haha. We shall start with GP, in order to back up my claim, TOM CRUISE, for example, has had 2 divorces in the past. So, even if someone DOES have the looks, so what? hahah. You can't hold a relationship together just with looks. And looks doesn't mean he/she has inner beauty as well right(: and PLUS, looks will wear off in the future, seriously.
For example if a person is simply georgeous, and if you are tired sick of the person's horrid character, then you will eventually think that his/her looks suck in the end(: Because no amount of look can cover a person's character. CHARACTER IS WHAT MATTERS MOST.
Plus, MESSAGING. YES(:
If a girl stops messaging you. 1. She wants to play hard to get. 2. She doesn't like you and may not be interested. 3. She may be busy 4. Lazy to reply. 5. She simply thinks its not worth replying. 6. OR, her FREE MESSAGES MAY HAVE GONE BUST(:
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Okay, and IF a girl constantly initiates conversations with you, HAHA. GOOD SIGN. (If its a girl you like) .
haha and yes, flirting. ah-hah.. girls simply DO NOT LIKE guys who flirt OR if guys continuously hang out with too many girls (a few is okay) . Maybe because 1. She wont feel secured with you if you flirt next time (IF you end up with her). 2. You seem desperate 3. She may get jealous
Okay, IF A GIRL CRIES.. Don't tell her not to cry, because it is something like be-littling her problem. If she cries, it must be something really bad! So, let her talk it out ,and reply her with SILENT NODS. Don't offer your suggestions yet. Only offer suggestions after she finishes speaking. (: yeah.
And dont keep talking about your ex, because she may not be interested and doesn't want to be compared to you ex. By talking to your ex, you are showing that you still care for your ex and have not moved on. =/
And no vulgarities please, to your own friends, and around her. she's watching(:
IN CONCLUSION, JUST BE YOURSELF!! (: HAHAHA. WHOA YOU MAY THINK IT WAS SUCH A WASTE OF TIME READING ALL THIS AND SEE THIS CONCLUSION. But yes,mmmm, being yourself helps ALOT! Eveything will come out naturally, and sincerely from your heart. Well, don't have to follow all these guidelines so closely, because it may come out a bit forced also isn't it? (: hahah so , Be yourself, and SHE will accept you for who you are(:"
CREDITS TO ANNETTE! :D
this is really cool.
